Monday, 18 November 2013

Q:A close,elderly relative is terminally ill.How can I prepare my 4 year old?

A:Discussing death can feel like a daunting prospect,but this will help your child enormously in coming to terms with the loss.The death of a pet offers an excellent opportunity to discuss dying,or talk about the death of plants or insects.Explain that death is the end of the life,and try to be factual and truthful.
   Avoid fairy tales about death or using the term "going to sleep",it'll only confuse your little one.Your tot may ask blunt questions,so answer him without too much elaboration.Short,accurate answers are best.
   Explain how the family will be upset and may cry.It helps make the grieving process part of a healthy reaction to losing someone you all care for.Involving your little one in the process of family grieving will be an important life lesson,and preparing him now will help you all.

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