Q:My 3 year old has picked up a swear word.How should I deal with it?

A:When using a swear word your toddler enjoys the look of shock,frustration,and perhaps even amusement that he may see on grown-ups' faces,which will only encourage him.Totally ignoring the word is often the quickest way to stop him saying it.So all the adults in his life need the same consistent approach when he swears - keep a straight face,avoid eye contact,turn away and focus on something else.Inevitably your tot may increase the behaviour for a few days as he tries to get the reaction he's used to,but stick with it and he'll soon get bored.You could also try and replace the word with another like "Oh bother",or something made up and funny,but keep the focus on the swear word to minimum.Make sure everyone minds their language at home,too.