Q:Will I be made to go home from hospital soon after I've had my baby,or can I stay in there for a few extra nights?

A:Nobody should make you do anything you don't feel happy doing,but you'll be advised on what's thought best for you and your baby.If you're both well,you may get more rest at home and,as long as you have support from your community midwife,this could be a better option for you.If you prefer to stay overnight,then that should be accommodated,but it's rare for women to stay longer if everything's been straightforward.You may need to stay longer if you've had a c-section,lost a lot of blood,have high blood pressure or if your baby isn't feeding very well or is showing signs of an infection.See how you feel after the birth.Your midwife should ask you what your plans are and whether or not you'd prefer to stay in hospital.Many women are keen to get home where they have support from their partner or family members - as well as their own bathroom and loo!